Life goes on ... Isn’t it??

Hi friends,

Though I don’t have any followers still writing to all 🤣.

I am from an Indian family with strong traditional values. My parents are looking for a groom for me in a matrimonial site.

The fun fact most of them are rejecting me because in most of the cases my annual earning is more than the groom and for the rest I am more qualified than the boys are.

Now the case is in India it’s still bad for a girl to earn money. Still people are search for bride similar way they shop for dress.

I am not against the concept of arranged marriage. I am just in favour of women respect. I am not sure why we always measure a woman

like a “thing”. Can’t a family just like a girl because she is educated?? Can’t they get some respect they deserve??

We always write and protest but we never change!!

I am 28 years old and a single woman. Emphasis on single !!!! This is not by choice.

My story starts from college. I was in girls school , so the time I went to college I never knew what a boy’s attention is. People may think I am desperate , but from my perspective I am not . When all the boys started to give me attention , it really felt good. I remember, I went into a relationship pretty fast . A boy who already had a girlfriend . I didn’t even remember why I did that but I did. It lasted the entire collage. That was because I was a topper and he needed my notes , and help to complete the engineering . If I think about it now, it’s insulting .

After collage I had many boys in my life. I can say “I love you ” to any person without having any feelings. Maybe I am desperate for love. If you see my track record all are bad influences . I guess I had a thing for bad boys. But none of them turn into anything special .

I went into another serious relationship in 2017. With my colleague . By this time I would like to point out I am not a bad looking person. Rather people do call me beautiful. I am a software engineer and have good working feedback. But it turns out that guy only wants my project not me. I really took it hard. He went to onshore based on my work . He got everything and I was again heart broken and desperate to keep him in my life. I did many things to bring him back. Tried suicide , lodge a complaint against him. But none of them worked .

I am glad they didn’t. I was desperate to prove that I also can be in a successful relationship . But it was wrong. Like every girl I believed in soul mate . I tried to get my happiness by any means. I was wrong .But by the time I realize nothing matters apart from your own happiness. You cannot buy love or no amount of stubbornness or blackmail will work . Everything will happen on its own time. If I am destined for someone I will get it . If not then life goes one. Isn’t it ?